Teenagers
You are worried about your teenager
They seem different. Distant. They won’t talk to you.
It might be their friend group, the person they are dating, or the pressures of being a teen.
You know something is wrong but you don’t know how to help them. They won’t let you help.
You love your teenager
You know they can get through this rough time, they just need some support.
They need to connect with someone who can teach them coping skills to get back to being themself.
You want someone who can help re-build the bridge between you and your teen so they know you will always love them and support them.
We would be honored to be that safe person for your teen to lean on during this difficult time. Reach out today to setup our first meeting.
We love working with teenagers to help them learn how to manage their anxiety, set healthy boundaries, change their negative thought patterns, and value the amazing individual they are.
For middle school, high school, and college-age clients, we utilize elements of Accelerated Resolution Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Solution-Focused Therapy with a fun sprinkle of expressive arts, sandtray, or play therapy! We will work together to tailor a therapy approach that you are comfortable with and works well for your child. Therapy works best when the client is willing to put in the effort to practice the skills and complete the “homework”. By giving them some elements of choice in their therapy approach, the more likely they are to want to do the work outside of our sessions together.
Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) teaches lifelong skills like mindfulness (learning to control your thoughts and focus your attention), tolerating unwanted feelings, regulating your emotions, and effectively interacting with other people. DBT has been proven to be effective with people of all ages who experience intense emotions and have a hard time handling those emotions in a healthy way. If you’re experiencing intense anxiety, depression, post-traumatic stress disorder, or thoughts of self-harm, this is an amazing approach to teach you specific skills that will be able to give you some relief from those negative feelings.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on how your thoughts, feelings, and actions all affect the other in a cyclical fashion. CBT teaches coping skills to analyze your thought patterns, find negative thinking habits, and replace them with more realistic ways of thinking. This approach is beneficial for people who suffer from anxiety, panic attacks, phobias, catastrophic thinking, or jumping to negative conclusions about others or yourself.
Contact us today to schedule a free 15 minute consultation to see if we would be a good fit.
What Parents Can Expect
Therapy Process:
Contact us to let us know you are interested in therapy for your child.
We will call you to get some background information and schedule our intake session.
Our first meeting will be an Intake session on Zoom with parents only. This allows us to talk freely about what you are seeing your child struggle with, what you have tried, and what I can do to help your family.
We will set weekly recurring sessions for your child to come see us and work on the skills they need.
We always want parents to feel informed enough about what their teenager is working on in therapy. We will do our best to encourage your teen to invite you into their session for short amounts of time every once in a while to keep you updated on what we are working on. However, in order to preserve our therapeutic relationship and trust, we want to let your teenager be the one to guide when they are ready for this level of openness with you.
It is also important that your teen feels comfortable to share all of their thoughts and feelings. This requires that they have some privacy during their counseling sessions. If they are having virtual sessions, please help them find an appropriate space where they can meet online and still feel safe to be open and honest.
Please notice that my hours are from 8 - 3 every day. I understand this means your child might miss school to come work on their emotion regulation skills. I am able to provide you with a school excuse note so their time away is considered excused (like a doctor’s visit). You can talk to your teen to see what might be the best time of day for them to miss a little school (Lunch, PE, Elective, Advisory).
We do not specialize in suicidal ideation. If your teen is struggling with this issue, we can give you referrals for other counselors who are well-equipped to help in that area.